Leary (aka "Bubby"), who is my canine companion of the last 15 years, my muse, my soul mate, and the inspiration behind Bubby & Bean, was diagnosed with Canine Hemangiosarcoma yesterday. The pronosis is poor and the cancer is incurable, and he's been given a few days to a few weeks (6 maximum) to live. Robbie flew home from tour last night to be with us, and this weekend will be devoted to spoiling Leary in every possible way. Leary's been in great health and suddenly collapsed yesterday morning, so this was a complete shock. Despite utter devastation and endless tears, I still don't quite believe it's real.
I hope you will all forgive me as I take a few days off of our regularly scheduled creative inspiration themed posts to spend time with the love of my life and let this all sink in.
If you'd like to learn more about the most magical dog in the world, you can view Leary's 15th birthday post right here.
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Sending lots of love and thoughts your way. Enjoy every moment with Leary and cherish the good times you've had. What a special bond you have with him. I am so sorry, Melissa.
ReplyDeleteOh Melissa I am so sorry. I know Leary has been a part of you for so long!!! He is such a special dog. And so handsome!!! Thank you for sharing the news with your readers. There are hundreds of inspiring posts on here to keep us all busy til you return so take your time!!!
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Jess
I'm so sorry to hear about your little guy. I'm sure he knows he is quite loved and is being comforted by his family. My thoughts go out to you and Bubby.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry--that is such terrible news. I hope you can enjoy every moment with him!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. Losing a pet is such an incredible loss. You are lucky that you have had him in good health for 15 years. Enjoy your last moments, you will be in my thoughts!
ReplyDeleteOh no...I am so sorry! I'm grateful you still have some spoiling time. Lots of well-wishes and hugs your way!
ReplyDeleteoh my gosh what sad news :( i am so so sorry to hear this. it makes me almost angry what mean unwanted tricks life throws in the way. thinking of you and bubby <3 <3
ReplyDeleteI am soooo sorry, it is so hard to let our four legged babies go, I have had and have a Boxer....make the most of the remaining time!
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Oh Melissa, you've had such hard losses this past year or so.
ReplyDeleteI'm so so sorry for this terribly high price that must be paid for loving so hard.
xo
Ohmygosh, that's so awful! My eyes more than watered while reading this post. In a time like this there's nothing that you can really say, except 'I'm so sorry.' Losing a pet is a huge deal. Enjoy your time together. <3
ReplyDeleteThis post made me tear up! I'm so sorry about Bubby, Melissa. I know he has been one lucky dog to spend his life with you and Robbie. xoxo, Mary
ReplyDeletewith tears she said take all the time u need. it's so very, very, sad.
ReplyDeleteOh no! I'm so sorry! How sad. Spend as much time with him as you can.
ReplyDeleteMy heart reaches out to you and your beautiful dog. I hope that you enjoy the final day with him! Keeping you guys in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteOffering endless prayers, love and support to Leary and his family. Leary has always held a very special place in my heart, and you are both so lucky to have one another in this lifetime. My heart is with you at this difficult time, Melly.
ReplyDeleteWishing you all joy together throughout these difficult days ahead. I hope you can find some comfort in the special moments you will be able to share with Leary this weekend and in the weeks to come. While loving opens our hearts to pain and loss, the love we are given in return never ends, it lasts forever in our hearts.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear that. You have a good fiance rushing back like that... I hope you give Bubby a lovely, unforgettable weekend. It sounds like he is a much-loved dog.
ReplyDeleteoh no, how heart-breaking! My heart goes out to you. Wishing you and Bubby much comfort and happiness together in the coming days.
ReplyDeleteSo very sorry to hear about your Bubby. I have an eleven year old lab that has been my shadow since I first left home. Coming to terms with the fact they you will outlive them is the hardest thing about having such a best friend with four legs. Just comfort him and give him all the love that you can muster and know that when he reaches the rainbow bridge, he will be in peace. Remember the good times! May Peace and Love be with you and Robbie and Bubby as you deal with these difficult times. He will always be in your hearts!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about Bubby :( You are in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThank you so, so much everyone. Leary has had a wonderful weekend full of hiking, filet mignon, presents, and love. (And a brand new bed, so he can be extra comfy!). The hardest part is that he doesn't seem sick at all, and with this horrible disease, he may feel perfectly fine for several weeks. So making the decision as to when we need to let him go will be very difficult. I'll be by his side 24/7, looking for any signs of change (and any signs from him). Fortunately, he isn't in pain, and a friend who is a vet assured me of this. So for now, we just watch and wait. It's a terrible feeling to know that he's essentially dying - I still can't believe it's real. At the same time, I am grateful that we were given a little time to spend with him knowing that this is the end, so that we can be certain to spoil him in every possible way.
ReplyDeleteDepending on what happens, I do plan to continue to work this week, which includes, of course, posting on the blog. I'm finding that if I don't take breaks from play time with Leary to do other things to occupy my mind, I break down. I need to stay strong for him, and the blog is my absolute favorite work to do, so although I'm not sure how many posts there will be this week, there will be posts (including a giveaway!).
Love + Gratitude,
melissa
I'm so sorry to hear about Leary. I'll be keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers.
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oh Melissa, I'm sooo sorry!! My heart goes out to you and I know you will make the most of the precious time you have together... you will be in my thoughts!
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts reach out to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteoh my goodness I'm so sorry to hear about your poor baby! :( I can only imagine how heartbreaking this is to hear. I hope you are able to help him enjoy his last days...however long that is. I'll be keeping him and you guys in my thoughts!
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you and i cannot imagine the heartbreak you are going through. Try and stay strong for Bubby, he is very lucky to have you guys as parents {and your lucky to have had him for all these years too}.
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Ay Melissa, so sorry to hear that. Thank you for your email, I'll be crossing my fingers for you...
ReplyDeleteHi Melissa—praying for peace and strength for you and for a miracle for Bubby. So glad that he is doing so well. You are amazing and such an inspiration. Thanks for sharing your lives with us. Praying for you to feel Papa God’s loving arms of support and comfort and healing touch.
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