In our beginning-of-year reader survey back in January, many of you commented that you'd like to see more "Essley posts." And last week, I received two separate emails from readers asking why I don't post about her more. So I wanted to explain a little about why those type of posts continue to be so few and far between.
Essley is, without a doubt, the most important thing in my life and the area where the vast majority of my time and energy is focused. Because of this, I think about posting about her pretty much everyday - but I'm consistently torn between a desire to share (because I just love her so freaking much) and a desire to vehemently protect her life from the internet. I've talked in the past about lessons learned regarding just how how easy (and common) it is for photos of people's children to be used by others online, often in ways that can be unfavorable. And as she's grown, I've definitely become more guarded about sharing too much. That said, you guys are more than my readers - you're also friends. I'm proud of my little bean and I do want to be able to share occasional bits and piece, both here and over here. It important to me for Bubby and Bean to be genuine, and even though I don't post a ton of personal content on this blog - especially when it comes to my daughter - I don't want it just read like a magazine without a face or real life behind it. I think the key is creating a healthy (and cautious) balance.
Thank you guys for understanding. And thank you for letting me share from time to time as well. The photos above are some of my recent favorite shots of my sweet Essley Morgan, who is growing into a little lady faster than I keep up. These are all just quick pictures I've captured on my phone over the last few weeks on our adventures. We have so much fun together, and she is my #1 inspiration behind just about everything I do. I couldn't possibly love her more.
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God, she's soooo cute ♥
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She is beautiful! I think it is good to have a balance like you have. The little one has privacy too, many parents neglect that.
ReplyDeleteShe is just lovely and although I love seeing posts about her, I think just sharing pieces here and there like you do is smart and thoughtful to her welfare as well.
ReplyDeleteI totally understand where you're coming from. It's up to you to decide where this good balance resides and what you feel is right.
ReplyDeleteNonetheless I absolutely love to see how beautiful you little lady is and how gracefully she is developing into this sweet toddler.
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I think you've established a great balance. It's obvious that you are cautious but I think it's great that you do share some pieces. I love watching her grow and appreciate you posting pics occasionally. She is so so so cute. =)
ReplyDeleteThe pigtails!!! I like how she is exploring everything around her :)
ReplyDeleteCute baby and very curious, like all children her age.
ReplyDeleteSuch a cutie pie! Totally understand your hesitation, by the way, just do what you feel is right. <333
ReplyDeleteThis is something I struggle so much with too. Thanks for sharing this!
ReplyDeleteHer piggy tails are just so adorable! I love when you share her with us :) But I totally understand your wanting to protect her as well!
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweetheart!! I'll certainly respect any decision you make about how much to share.
ReplyDeleteI love her so much :))))))) and I totally get where you're coming from, I have heard horror stories from others, so I can totally understand what that must be like for you. <33
ReplyDeleteshe's just a doll I love these photos! I totally feel you on trying to find the balance between sharing and protecting! some days my mama heart feels the love for my son so fiercely I can't help but want to hide him away from the world
ReplyDeleteHer little pigtails slay me. She's such a little cutie pie. You're right to be guarded about how much you share, and it seems like you've found a great balance. Keep doing what you think is best!
ReplyDeleteThanks for your kind words everybody! I appreciate your understanding. :) xo, m
ReplyDeleteI really hear you on the privacy issue. In fact, I didn't share ANY photos of me or my kids for the longest time. Now I share some shots of my oldest daughter (she just turned 18 in Dec.), and sometimes I'll post my preschooler.
ReplyDeleteI feel like I'm always overly paranoid, and my photos are definitely not the best. You have a great balance and make it work, though. I always love seeing Essley posts! She's getting so big, and her hair's getting so long. Kids just grow up way too fast. Treasure each moment!